Twitter is always full of fun people. Yeah, the platform is garbage and full of Nazis, white supremacists, TERFs, and a variety of alt-right douchebags, but it’s also been the platform I’ve been on for the longest sustained period of time going back to…god, mid-2010, I guess. In that time, despite its changes for the worse and the increases of awful people, I’ve also made many good friends on the platform, ranging from furries and fanfiction authors to astrologers and occultists and any number of people in between. Lately, I’ve been enjoying the company of a good number of (somehow all bewilderingly attractive) astrologers and diviners, which gives me endless entertainment and education (and gawking over how insultingly good they look in their photos).
Not that long ago, one of my mutuals started up a conversation among this very group that struck a chord with me:
This, yes, absolutely, forever.
Even from an early date in my occult studies, stuff about gender has always not set exactly well with me, e.g. the whole bullshit Law of Gender from the Kybalion, yet another reason why I hate and detest the damn text. I mean, while I am gay, I’m also comfortable in my cisgender identity as a man, but I have quite a few other friends and colleagues who aren’t but who are transgender, genderfluid, nonbinary, agender, or otherwise. That so much in traditional magical literature relies on a system of gender that doesn’t work for so many of us is…troubling, honestly. It’s nothing insurmountable for me, and I would hope that it’s likewise not a total obstruction for others, but that it poses a problem for many of us can’t be denied. Like, for me, who has no sexual or romantic attraction to women, the notion of an element being “feminine” would logically suggest that it should be cut off from me as something inherently foreign, which is certainly not the case.
Time and again we come across scientific evidence and studies that show that there aren’t even always two physical sexes per species, or that the roles and responsibilities of each physical sex shift and change between species or even between stages of life in a species, or which change based on the environment around and hormones within the members of that species. If occult philosophy is rooted in natural philosophy, i.e. if studying the occult is grounded in studying the world around us, then shouldn’t we actually respect what we find in the world around us rather than imposing a really simplistic view that doesn’t even work for us as a species or a civilization? To be fair, I do understand and agree that most humans are cisgender and heterosexual, and most animal species reproduce sexually in a way that we can identify as being carried out by something resembling heterosexuality in humans. That, however, does not mean that it is any more natural than variations seen in gender, sex, or sexual behavior, because those are as natural as the more common set. Being uncommon does not mean being abnormal.
There’s also the argument that oh, even as a gay man, I should be in touch with my “feminine side”. Tell me, what is a “feminine side”? What are the essential qualities that make something feminine? I know many women who don’t have such qualities, and many men who do. I know that much of what one culture describes as “feminine” is considered masculine by another culture, or vice versa. I know that much of what nontoxic masculinity is could easily be described as expected feminine behavior, and vice versa. To me (and I speak only for myself in this), gender is a role that one plays based on cultural norms, with nothing essential about it; there can be no “masculine side” and “feminine side” because both of those are meaningless terms that just play out in a given context or arena of culture, society, and communication. To be sure, these things have power and meaning as far as such things do, but there’s nothing essential, fundamental, or elemental about them that needs to be carried into a fair amount (maybe all?) Western magical practices.
I know that it’s certainly traditional to refer to the elements of Fire and Air (and all their corresponding tools, symbols, planets, zodiac signs, and other correspondences) as masculine or male and to Water and Earth (and all their correspondences) as feminine or female, but we can do so much better. For one, knowing that each element is a combination of heat and moisture, a system going all the way back to Aristotle:
What quality immediately jumps out at us that links the “masculine” and “feminine” elements? It’s heat! The “masculine” elements Fire and Air are both hot, and the “feminine” elements Water and Earth are both cold, so why not just call them hot and cold, or warm and cool, instead?
This and so many other alternatives to “masculine” and “feminine” were proposed in the conversation on Twitter, some of which I like and others I don’t as much care for, including:
- solar and lunar
- diurnal and nocturnal
- odd and even
- independent and communal
- fast and slow
- electric and magnetic
- celestial and terrestrial
- light and dark
(Personally, when not using the celestial and terrestrial dichotomy from my Mathēsis stuff, I absolutely adore the electric and magnetic dichotomy, because electricity and magnetism are really the same underlying force that operate in two different ways.)
There is also, of course, the almost-as-traditional “active” and “passive”, but this is dispreferable in another way, because “passive” has some unfortunate connotations that also doesn’t exactly work. For instance, if I throw a large amount of water onto a fire, well, fire is supposed to be an active element, right? So it should act upon the water, but what happens is that the water puts out the fire: the “passive” element acts upon the “active” one. Not exactly helpful in that light. Plus, the connotations of “active” and “passive” play into the traditional male-female roles during sex, where the “active” man is on top penetrating the “passive” woman on bottom. Okay, boring.
You could reframe this “active” and “passive” issue using, for instance, “convex” and “concave”. Consider the Chinese characters for these words: 凸 and 凹, respectively (as might be evident). Like…you can see it too, right? It’s not just my mind in the gutter? If we equate “convex” with “active” and “concave” with “passive”, well…let me tell you that anyone who’s receiving in sex and is just remaining passive is doing sex wrong and should be ashamed of themselves. You can take it and still run the show. Being “passive” does not equate with being inert, boring, or ineffectual; being “receptive” or “concave” does not equate with being submissive, unassuming, or calm.
Personally? I’m all for getting rid of the notions of gender in our elements, tools, zodiac signs, and other correspondences. You can include them if you like, but I don’t care to have a system or cosmos that’s inherently structured and built upon them, especially when everything has an undivided, indivisible, undifferentiated Source. You can have polarities and dichotomies and spectrums without having gender, and gender is not the be-all end-all of polarities. We don’t have to reduce all dichotomies to a socially-bound, Western categorization of how certain people with certain physical differences should behave. We can be so much better than this. We can do so much better than this. We don’t have to be locked into a procrustean bed of gender-locked magic and cosmology when we can literally see and interact with cosmic forces that do not follow laws of gender and, indeed, break the very systems that gender tries to support and maintain.
Then I take a deep breath, and I go outside, and I…look at geomancy, and I’m reminded of the figures Puer and Puella. And I frown, because we have this very gender/sex issue embedded in two of our figures, going back to the founding of geomancy itself.
I’ve gone on at length about these figures before, describing how their elemental structure suggests and effects their divinatory and occult significations, and so much else. Yet, here it is, the male-female dichotomy itself staring at us in the face.
Geomancy itself is a system built upon dichotomy. Dichotomy literally means “a cutting (categorization) into two”, which is the fundamental aspect of binary systems. Geomancy, as a binary system, has rows that have one point or two points. In this particular case, I think the use of “active” and “passive” is useful to describe such an arrangement, because it’s referring to the literal existence or non-existence of a given element within a figure. For instance, if Fire is active, then it can cause a change in another figure’s Fire line (odd to even or even to odd); if Fire is passive, then it preserves and takes on whatever is in another Figure’s fire line (odd stays odd and even stays even). This is how I interpret odd or even as far as numbers go, and to me, the mere presence or absence of an element has nothing to do with that element being “male” or “female”. Again, gender/sex is just one kind of polarity, if it even is to be reckoned having two poles at all.
So, what to do about Puer and Puella? Well, I know that the names of figures aren’t fixed. Throughout the history of geomancy, many sets of names have been applied to the figures, even within the same language. Stephen Skinner in his Geomancy in Theory and Practice gives a huge table of all the names he’s been able to document for the figures across multiple manuscripts, books, and traditions. For instance, the figure Fortuna Maior (literally meaning “Greater Fortune”) has also been called:
- Auxulium intus (interior aid)
- Tutela intrans (entering assistance)
- Omen maius (greater omen)
- Honor intus (interior honor)
Still, despite the variation in names, they all have more-or-less the same meaning. But then we come to figures that don’t have any similarity with their common names, such as Imberbis (beardless) for Puer. Such names come from a much older, Arabic-inspired tradition that uses similar names for the figures, which tie into the meanings through other symbolic means; “beardless”, for instance, refers to young men who are yet energetic while still not old enough to have the full features of maturity. Other names for Puer include Flavus (blond, perhaps referring to the bright golden hair color associated with young children?), Belliger (warring), or even Gladius Erigendus (erect sword, which…mmhm.)
What I’m saying here is that the names of the figures have gone through quite a lot of change and variation over the centuries, and what matters is that the names are descriptive of the meanings of the figures in divination and magic. Puer means a whole lot more than “boy”, of course, as does Puella than merely “girl”, but a whole set of personality, physical, temperamental, and situational traits that go far beyond merely what might be considered masculine or feminine as determined by medieval European society. So, why not think of other names for these two figures that can decouple them from a reliance on the male-female distinction?
Personally, I like going with Hero and Host, playing off not just the initial sounds of the words, but on the dichotomy of hostility and hospitality, rough and smooth, or as my mutual above phrased it, “gall and grace”. They tie into my own meditations and visualizations of the figures, too. On Puer:
The young man dressed in rags and armor, riding his horse, drops his armor’s visor, raises his sword, and plunges into the fight. All he’s in it for is to fight, and the fight is real, especially if he’s the one to start it (he usually is). If he’s on the right side in the fight, he’ll lay his enemies bare and clear the field to pave the way for future foundations; if not, he’ll live to fight for a hopeless and regretful day later. But that doesn’t matter to him, anyway; he lives for the fight, the struggle, the excitement, the passion, the heat, and the war that never ends for him. His visor limits his vision, cutting out peripheral vision entirely and causing him to focus on what’s right ahead of him; just so does he only care for the current day and the current battle. He’s young and without experience of victory, or even finesse in battle, his rashness and recklessness giving him all the flailing speed and power he needs, but he’s fighting not just to fight but also for that experience he lacks. And, after all, he’s fighting because there’s one thing he’s missing: someone to really fight for. Don’t expect him to be your ally when you call, but expect him to call on you or pull you into the fight.
And on Puella:
…I saw myself walking into a massive pyramidal hall, an ancient temple with smooth golden sandstone walls neatly fit together rising up to a square hole in the ceiling, with a light shining down into it illuminating everything the temple with a rich, warm, delicate light. The whole of the temple was filled with treasures, rich tapestries, delicate statues and figurines, and piles of paintings; it was a temple in the old style, a warehouse and storeroom for all the holy treasures a temenos or church would’ve accrued over the centuries. At the end of the temple, meandering through a forest of statues and stacks of gold, kneeling down in prayer was a young maiden, dressed in the finest dress, modest but alluring, sweet but experienced. I approached her, and she looked up at me with the most genuine, kindest, warmest smile I’ve ever seen; she stepped up, took my hand, and walked me around the temple. It was bliss, even for me who doesn’t go for women, but she told me about how she had been expecting me, preparing all this for me, watching out for my arrival; she told me that she wanted to make sure I was alright. I told her that I was, and by then, she had led me to the entry of the temple and gently guided me out with the kindest and warmest of farewells. I left with a smile on my face, both in my mind and in my physical body.
You can just as easily swap out “young man” for “young woman” in the former, and “young maiden” with “young prince” in the latter. Neither of those rely on gender or sex. There might be an argument for the dot patterns of the figures: some say that Puer represents an erect phallus and Puella an open vagina, and I can agree with those! But dot patterns are fickle things, and they can be interpreted as any number of other things, too: Puer can represent a sword and Puella a mirror (a la the original forms of the glyphs for the shield-and-spear of Mars and the handheld-mirror of Venus), or Puer could represent a person with their arms low in a defensive fighting stance and Puella a person standing with their arms out in embrace and welcome. If you’re troubled by the notion of Puer representing a woman because of its emphasis on erection, don’t forget that the clitoris also swells with blood when its owner gets aroused—a.k.a., an erection. As for men worrying about being seen as womanly by being associated as the Host (née Puella), don’t forget that some of the greatest role models we have for nontoxic masculinity in the West include Mr. Rogers and Bob Ross, the perfect neighbor who welcomed all to his neighborhood and a stunning artist who found beauty in all scenes and spread it to all who wanted it.
As for the new terms, I can also hear some saying “well, hero has a feminine version, ‘heroine’, and host has a female version, ‘hostess’, these aren’t gender-neutral terms!” Sure, I suppose, if you want to use the French, Latin, or Greek roots of the words we have, where the language was inherently gendered along grammatical lines. But, at least in English, we don’t really have gender on words unless we force gender onto those words; “host” suffices just fine for men or women, as does “hero”. We don’t need to specify “hostess” or “heroine” unless we want to emphasize that someone is hosting and is also a woman, or that someone exceptionally brave and courageous is also a woman; we can use the unmarked forms of the words as being applicable to any (or no) gender just fine. After all, we call women “director”, “doctor”, “administrator”, and “aviator”, not “directrix”, “ductrix”, “administratrix”, or “aviatrix”, which are the proper feminine versions of those words. We can drop the gendered endings because they’re not necessary unless we want to absolutely reinforce the notion that someone’s gender must be specified at any and every given opportunity.
Will I start using and enforcing the terms Hero and Host on my blog? For the sake of communication, probably not. Chances are I’ll just keep them to myself and refer to them that way in my head, using the more popular and common names that have been in solid use for five centuries or more in public for the sake of communication. Still, when teaching these figures, I think it’d be useful to have an alternate set of names for them as well, which most texts are already liable to do. Adding another pair of names to help decouple gender from magic isn’t too hard an effort to make, but the results are worth it, I claim.
Very good. I mulled this over a while back and decided that diurnal/nocturnal was fundamental (and clearly adjacent to hot/cold). There’s also a complicated but basic correspondence with left hemisphere/ right hemisphere functioning (as in _The Master and His Emissary_ by Iain McGilchrist, much recommended).
Many “traditions” are suspect. Categorization was a big deal in the Middle Ages according to C.S. Lewis. So a lot of OCD mages forcefully pigeonholed a lot of things that became “tradition” simply because their works survived. “Sexing” things up would certainly be one of them. And of course value judging them according to personal bias.
However, I can see hazards overwriting magical tradition with 21st century gender/sex ideas. It is true many are well thought out, based on science, and reasonable. Yet others hail from Facebook hothouse admiration room/echo chamber meme hells.
A tricky part about magic is that the user can fall victim of their own hubris connecting causation and effect in their work. Especially mixing ideology with methodology. Indeed, a greater long term hazard may not come of this because an ideology is wrong but because it’s right.
I’m sure it was also considered hazardous to do away with notions of how intelligent different races are based on cranial measurements. That was considered good, accepted science once upon a time, too.
I see your point, but I also raise the fact (not a philosophy or an idea, but an actual attested fact) that gender is not a set-in-stone thing. There is simply no objective, universal “male” essence or “female” essence in the human condition; to impose this on cosmic ideas is a way to humanize, personify, and anthropomorphize them to make such cosmic things more relatable, as we would with many other qualities, but we can’t mistake the map for the terrain here, especially if the map is quickly proving outdated, known to use a misleading projection, and doesn’t have the labels in the right places for some destinations.
I’m limiting myself in this discussion intentionally to Hermetic magic, where we can definitely do away with gendered notions of the cosmos, because gender is not essential to the practice of this stuff and gender increasingly becomes a hindrance rather than a help to many. Those who do not fit into patterns of maleness or femaleness suffer when we frame the cosmos as male or female; we’re effectively telling them “you can’t do magic because you can’t fit into a cosmic arrangement, so bend yourself into shape or you won’t get anywhere”. That’s such farcical BS.
Forcing gender onto people and the comos is ideology, but giving people the chance to gender themselves and the cosmos is not. If using gender works for you, good! Keep on doing what works for you. But know that your case cannot be a universal or general case, and I’m more interested in knowing what can be used as a model that can be readily understood and used regardless of who might be picking up a wand.
I started pointing out how some magical traditions have dubious pedigrees. You’ve read some grimoires with simple rituals with a follow up grimoire a century or so later that reads like rocket ship instructions from over thinking. I’m sure dead magicians rolled in their graves when some of those were written. (“WTF!? Just light the damn candles and say the words! I never said anything about defining a gender for every damn thing!”)
I don’t have a beef with your beliefs about sex and gender. They may be game changing human improvements or transient and pointless as phrenology. Ultimately they’re outside my circle of control/circle of concern. You must do you. I’m saying proceed with caution. Magic’s intent to working to result chain can be vague. Dearly held beliefs and values can lead us astray when we apply them in all situations. Hammers looking for nails. Again, a greater long term hazard may NOT come of this because an ideology is wrong but because it’s RIGHT. Do consult reliable magician buddies who won’t drink your bathwater.
I wish you the best. There’s nothing to say that magic can’t or won’t or shouldn’t move at the pace the world does. (And the world is changing ever faster!) Or that traditions derived from silliness mentioned in the first paragraph need continue. The upside of being right seems worth the risk for magical studies.
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When censorship becomes more important than the truth, you might as well give up on occultism.
A good thing, then, that none of this is about censorship at all!
Thank you very much for sharing your thoughts!! The gender binary has been one of the biggest obstacles I encountered when I started looking into astrology and planetary magic. Duality and opposites are important here, but, knowing biology, I never could understand how male and female could be “opposites”. And as you’ve put it, gender isn’t a fundamental quality – it’s based on social norms and expectations. I also had the same problems regarding passive and active. This is a brilliant alternative take to that “duality”! Heat vs cold, gall vs grace. I think this would also be useful to apply to tarot? I always had a hard time interpreting king and queen cards, and gall and grace might just work well!
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