Whenever I engage in a conjuration of one of the bigger angels, or chat with a god during a special offering, I end up shooting the shit with them about any number of things: things I’d like to see happen or done in my life, various questions about practice and theory in terms of theurgy and thaumaturgy, and gods-know-what-else. At the end of these little discussions, but before I wrap it up and dismiss or leave the spirit, I ask this:
Is there anything else at this point you would teach me or tell me? Is there anything else you would have me learn, know, or do?
Such a simple question, but with such a vast effect. A good third of the total information I’ve ever gotten from conjurations comes from asking this. The spirits, after all, often know a lot more than we do and how we relate to them. Getting their feedback in understanding our roles in the spheres they work in and how we stand in relation to them is invaluable advice, and if you’re not asking this when you engage with spirits you’ve built up a relationship with, you’re doing yourself a disservice.
I started asking this on my own to the angels when I was first getting really involved with the elemental angels “way back when” (all the way back in 2011, baby, all those two long years ago), mostly out of a desire to know what the fuck it was I was actually doing. I still feel this way often enough, but back then, I was really feeling like I was just blundering and blustering about blindly in the darkness and then suddenly spirits happen. So, naturally enough, one of the first questions I wanted to know was “why am I doing this?”, and I haven’t really been able to get a satisfactory answer, neither then nor anytime since then. In other words, why am I practicing magic? Why am I called for this, why am I doing this? Ever since I started asking, nearly every spirit who has the purview and interest enough to answer has replied the same: “to do magic”, like it’s my primary and chosen vocation or something.
Well and good, but it’s not specific enough to my tastes and leaves much to be desired. And yet, it’s problematic for me in another way. If I’m chosen to do magic, what are the limits of magic? If my frameworks and theories of magic indicate that its power is basically unlimited (in its own ways according to certain circumstances and conditions), then doesn’t that give me a huge power over the world, myself, and others? Doesn’t that make me, well, special? Being chosen by the spirits to do spiritual work certainly isn’t a common calling; with it still being a necessary calling and a needed role to fill, doesn’t that make me extra-needed by creation? Doesn’t that make me, in some way, a kind of mini-savior?
Barring the natural difference in people due to talent and genius, I believe that one of the defining attributes of humanity is that we don’t necessarily have fixed roles among ourselves. Every species has its own role to play in the larger scheme of things: predators control populations of other animals, fungi help dissolve and decompose to recycle materials into the biosphere, and the like. Humans, according to a Hermetic view, help maintain the sephirah of Malkuth, the sphere of existence that meshes the material universe with the spiritual cosmos; humanity can be seen to be this sphere’s “choir of angels”, so to speak, maintaining and working with this sphere as our job as part of the larger creation of things. However, this role can be endlessly complex, due to the complexity created from humanity’s interaction with both the universe and the cosmos, or what I call the human world. Among ourselves, we have different roles to play, different jobs to discharge, and different strengths for which we are uniquely suited that only we can fill, a strong indication of one’s True Will or spiritual purpose, where we fit into the larger machine of creation.
Still, seeing what we’re good at, what we ought to discharge in this sphere, and ultimately who we are can be a dangerous thing, and leads to something I often term “special snowflake syndrome”. According to Urban Dictionary,
A malady affecting a significant portion of the world’s population wherein the afflicted will demand special treatment, conduct themselves with a ludicrous, unfounded sense of entitlement, and generally make the lives of everyone around them that much more miserable.
The danger of this disease is that the sufferers rarely, if ever, know that they have contracted it, and continue about their merry way under the assumption that EVERYONE ELSE is the problem.
(If you ever look at the social justice or otherkin tumblrs, you’ll know what I mean. If you haven’t read them, never do this.)
Why do people develop this? It’s because they begin to see who they are, which is a good thing, but get an unfounded sense of vainglory, pride, and self-importance at who they are, which is a bad thing. They think that because they’re the only ones who can be them and do the things they do, this makes them special or otherwise rare in the world, and end up developing a persecuted savior mindset because why can’t you treat them like the unique holy thing that they are, bawwwwwwwww. They don’t need to consult others or get external input on what they’re doing or supposed to be doing, because clearly they already know everything they need to know about their special role. Like a snowflake, they must be unique, and therefore are to be cherished by the masses. I see this developing in no small number of magical people who suddenly realize “o hej, I can do magickqzs!” and think that they are the biggest shit ever. Sadly, in the process, they actually do become the biggest shit ever, but not in the sense they desire.
I like to keep myself well-grounded and humble enough to prevent this from happening to me, bordering on self-depreciation and overmodesty. In fact, it’s why I make a special prayer of humility fairly often to keep myself from getting too carried off in my own delusions of grandeur. Even if I’m one of the few chosen to do magic, why should I be necessarily praised for essentially just doing my job? Even if I’m a holy power chosen by the Almighty, why wouldn’t I recognize that same in every other human and entity alive? Maybe it’s the weirdness and glamour of magic itself that still strikes me as weird, that fascination with this arcane and maligned yet powerful art that can change the course of nations and individuals alike. But even so, can’t I say the same thing about my computer science skills and my current workplace, where I work with significant economic data used in thousands upon thousands of contracts and analyses daily across my country and the world? Can’t I say the same thing about the jobs and work of others, too? Can’t I say the same thing about others generally, too? Just because I’m chosen for a particular necessary role doesn’t diminish the necessity of other roles or those chosen for them. Just because I’m helping out the world in my own small way doesn’t make me a savior for the masses, it makes me a small gear in the great machinery of creation. Just because I’m told to do magic doesn’t make me special, it makes me understand that my minor job in a world of jobs is the best one for me and I’m the best person in a world of people for it.
Yes, I may be a special snowflake, but there are also a lot of snowflakes out there. It’s only upon microscopic inspection that any one snowflake can be meaningfully differentiated from the others; at any other larger distance, snow is one large undifferentiated mass (barring contaminants, pollution, or dense packs of ice, of course). Snow falls and is natural, and each flake contributes to the weather; we enjoy the snow, but we don’t necessarily care about or notice any one particular flake. One snowflake does not make a blizzard and lasts for no time at all on its own.
Preach it, brother.
I’ve also found that the speshul snoflaiks often have the *least* talent, drive, and ability, among other things. They’ll have huge egos to cover up their failings.
The humble ones are the ones who really walk the proverbial walk, I’ve found. They don’t advertise, or if they do, it’s not all that much. They don’t need to as their Work speaks for itself.
Keep fighting the good fight!
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